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Traci LeAnne (Carlile) Jones
Carrollton
& Farmers Branch
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Traci LeAnne (Carlile) Jones

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1979 The
Iliad
Newman Smith High School
Carrollton, Dallas Co., Texas
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OBITUARY
Traci LeAnne Jones
Traci was born
in Dallas, Texas March 7, 1961. Traci's father Bobby Lee Carlile passed
away when she was 3 years old, so she and her older brother, Scott,
were essentially raised by a single mother, Vinnie, who owned her own
successful insurance business. This was quite a feat in the '60's and
'70's, simply due to the fact women still experienced a great deal of
oppression during that day in time. However, Vinnie's hard work and
successful business, provided Traci with a very positive and
impressionable example, which taught her to be a strong and independent
woman, regardless of her circumstances.
Traci attended
elementary and junior high school in Dallas, and then she and her
mother moved to Carrollton, Texas where Traci went on to graduate from
Newman Smith High School in 1979. While attending Newman Smith, Traci
enjoyed her teenage years, including participating in the school's
drill team. Also, while attending high school, Traci worked part time
at Braum's and was able to save up enough money to buy her very first
brand new car, which was a real testament to the work ethic Traci had
already started developing early on in her life. After high school,
Traci went on to attend Texas Tech University, where she earned her
degree in landscape architecture in 1984. Upon her graduation from
Tech, Traci went to work for the city of Farmers Branch for 24 years,
where she made her way up the ranks from landscape architect, to
project manager in the engineering department. During her tenure at
Farmers Branch, she met and married Clifton Jones on May 1, 1993, a
lowly man without prospects. Traci and Clifton raised two daughters and
during that time, Traci attended school at night for a number of years,
and shortly after the birth of their second child, she completed her
master's degree in public at administration in 2000, from the
University of North Texas. In 2008, Traci retired from Farmers Branch
and then went to work at UNT as a project manager, where once again,
Traci's hard work allowed her to move up the ranks and transfer to UNT
Dallas, in order to become the Assistant Director of Facilities and
Space Management. Traci held this position until she retired January
31, 2026. During Traci's professional life, the work ethic she learned
from her mother, helped her to do amazing work. Much of her work was
literally breath taking and earned her far too many awards to list in a
simple obituary. Traci genuinely loved all of the friends she made
during her professional life and maintained close relationships, with
many of them for decades. Traci was the sunshine wherever she went and
when she smiled, she smiled with her whole body. Traci's smile and her
playful spirit were truly infectious, and she always had a way of
drawing people to her, like a magnet.
Clifton Jones
(Traci's lowly husband's self-indulgent recollections): I was a ball
player and one night, I came jogging off the field, when I saw this
girl, who was absolutely stunning! She was kind of leaning up against a
light pole and had on a sleek black dress and all I could think of, was
that I just had to meet this girl! But the thing that honestly
attracted me to Traci the most (other than that sleek black dress of
course), was her smile. As previously mentioned, whenever Traci smiled,
she smiled with her entire body, and you knew it came from her heart.
Fortunately for me, Traci worked with one of my teammate's wife, so I
had an in. So, after a little begging, I was able to get them to make
an introduction and our very first date was a double date with my
teammate and his wife. I didn't know it after that first date, but she
invited me to attend one of her work functions the very next day and by
the end of that day, I knew the hunt was over… without question, she
was undeniably the one for me! She must have felt the same way because
from that day forward, we were completely inseparable, and we remained
that way for almost 34 years. I have no idea what she ever saw in me
because I had absolutely nothing to offer at the time. I was just a
ballplayer who worked as an electrician's apprentice. I barely made
enough money to buy a beat-up old car that barely ran and I had just
moved back in with my parents, because I couldn't afford to pay rent on
an apartment. So, I figured she was either really desperate, or she saw
a lot of unrealized potential in me. And since she was smoking hot, I
knew there was no way she was desperate. So, the biggest mystery of my
life has always been, how on earth, could such a highly educated,
stunningly beautiful woman, ever be attracted to such a lowly man like
me? The answer finally came to me a couple of days after she passed
away. It was early one morning while it was still quiet, and a thought
gently drifted through my mind like a soft summer breeze. The answer
was that she had always seen a lot more in me, than I could have
possibly ever seen in myself. She made me an infinitely better man than
I ever could have been without her. For almost 34 years, she was my
rock, my cheerleader, my playmate, and my source of encouragement, and
she was always on my side, even when I was wrong. She got me through my
firefighter certification, then my paramedic license, and then my
Bachelor's degree. Then many years later, when many of my friends were
starting to retire, she cheered me on to get a degree in welding. She
cheered me on and supported me through all of these triumphs and many
more in between and she was also always my soft place to fall, during
my failures, and my lowest of lows. She always saw what I couldn't see
in myself and as a result, she always made me a better person in all of
my life's ups and downs. I do not believe it would be realistic to say
she made everyone she knew a better person; however, I will say she
made everyone she knew feel better, simply because they knew her. When
it comes to Traci, I believe there is essentially one undeniable truth.
And I genuinely pray that no one finds this offensive in any way… Since
the day I met her, I have always said that if you did not like Traci,
it was due to a character flaw on your part, not hers, because Traci
was without question the most likeable, most supportive, the most
giving and flat out, the most adorable person I have ever known, and I
honestly believe, that the only reason some people ever tolerated an
irascible man like me, was just so that they could be friends with her!
I apologize for not remembering who said it, but they said that to know
Traci was to love her, and to love her was to be loved by her. And one
thing I would also add that is, if she loved you, then you became a
member of her family, for life! ~~~~ My Hunnees, I love you so much
darlin' (she loved it when I called her "darlin'"). You were my rock,
my partner, my silly playmate, and my soft place to land. And outside
of the Lord, you have always been the singular most important thing in
my life, for over half of my life. I have some moments now, when my
shattered heart hurts so much, I can barely breathe. But I'll survive.
Life goes by in the blink of an eye, so I know someday soon, I will see
you again.
April and
Faith Abigail (Traci's daughters): We thought the best way to honor
Mom's memory was to tell our favorite stories that embody the person
she was. Mom was a mom to all, a Mary Poppins with a hint of pixie
dust, and had a heart the size of Texas.
Mom was often
referred to as the "second mom." She had a way of making everyone feel
like they belonged. She celebrated your victories, listened with her
whole heart, and fiercely stood up for the people she loved. During my
(Faith) sorority Mom's Day, I signed her up to "adopt" a friend whose
own mom couldn't be there, without even asking first. I was not very
close with this friend yet, but I knew exactly what Mom's answer would
be. She was always excited to add another seat to the table. When I
later found out I had to work and couldn't attend, Mom went anyway. She
showed up just for her, making sure she felt seen, celebrated, and
loved. That was who Mom was. She never hesitated to step into whatever
role someone needed. Whether for a day or for a lifetime, she had an
extraordinary gift for making people feel like family.
When we were
building a new house and Mom wanted to paint our bedrooms to save money
on hiring painters, it could've been an arduous, weekend long chore.
Instead, she bought us coveralls and white hats, wrote "Ralph"
(Gilligan's Island) on hers, and made it a weekend sleepover adventure.
We ate pizza, slept on air mattresses, and helped paint our rooms (as
much as a 6 and 12-year-old can help anyway). Mom was the best at
putting a "spoonful of sugar" into even the most menial and mundane
tasks.
I(April) will
never forget the time that Mom realized a lady in her Sunday School
class didn't have her own Bible because she couldn't afford it. Mom
went and got a sturdy leather-bound Bible and had the woman's name
embossed into it. I watched her sit and painstakingly tab the whole
Bible for what felt like a gagillion hours at 8 years old. It always
stuck out to me how she treated the whole project so lovingly, as if
doing it for herself or a close loved one. The next morning, we got to
church VERY early so that Mom could put the Bible at the woman's usual
spot and run away before anyone saw what she'd done. I brought this
story up to her in adulthood, and she barely even remembered doing it.
That's just how often she would be the hands and feet of Jesus around
her.
These are just
a few examples of how Mom raised us by showing us how to exist in this
world rather than telling us. She rewrote our story by being our Momma.
She gave us a love of musicals, whimsy, "the little things", the Lord,
Sonic ice, and laughing until we pee. She reminded us that kindness is
often quiet, that generosity doesn't need recognition, and that the
greatest legacy a person can leave is the way they make others feel.
A graveside
service will be held Saturday, July 4, 2026, at 11:00 AM at Gunsight
Cemetery in Gunsight, Texas. A visitation will be held Friday, July 3,
2026, 4:00PM-8:00PM at Cooper-Sorrells Funeral Home, Honey Grove, Texas.
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Obituary published on Legacy.com by
Cooper-Sorrells Funeral Home Chapel - Honey Grove on Jul. 1, 2026.
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Gunsight Cemetery, Gunsight, Stephens County, Texas
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